Understanding The Dynamics of Parental Alienation For Targeted Parents


As a targeted parent you need to learn everything you can about Parental Alienation from reliable & credible sources! This is your first step!

This professional training for targeted parents costs just €39.97*

Question: Are you committed to protecting your child(ren) from the long term mental health damage that Parental Alienation causes? If you are then the investment you make in this training could be the best money you have ever spent in your fight against Parental Alienation!

*Includes access to our Parental Alienation Reference Database

    Expert Parental Alienation Training by Brian O'Sullivan

    Consultant Systemic Family Psychotherapist & Co-Founder of Parental Alienation Europe

    M.Sc. (Syst. Psych), B.A Psych & Psych Testing, Dip. Emergency Medicine, FTAI, ICP, PASG.

    • An expert in Parental Alienation with over a decade of clinical experience

    • Acts as an expert witness in family law cases where alienation is a factor

    • Works with alienated parents and children on a daily basis

    • Has helped to reunite alienated children with their targeted parents

    • Published peer reviewed papers internationally on Parental Alienation

    • Interviewed on TV & Radio on the topic of Parental Alienation

    • Has been featured in numerous press articles and interviews on Parental Alienation

    • Lectures in universities and provides training to mental health and legal professionals on the subject of Parental Alienation

    What's Included In This Important Training For Targeted Parents?

    • The Definition & History of Parental Alienation, this is not a new issue!

    • The 5 Factor Model for identifying Parental Alienation and determining whether you are in the Mild, Moderate or Severe stages of Parental Alienation

    • The 17 Alienating Strategies that alienating parents use to turn your kids against you and how to spot them

    • The 8 Behavioural Symptoms of Parental Alienation that manifest in children that are victims of Parental Alienation

    • 17 Strategies To Address Parental Alienation and protect yourself, your child and your sanity

    • The Tactics Alienating Parents Use, how to spot them so that you can protect your child and yourself

    • Adultification, Parentification & Pathological Triangles, the way alienating parents operate to exclude you from your child's life

    • The Voice of The Child and the difference between expressed wishes and ascertainable reasons

    • Identifying an Expert In Parental Alienation and why you need suitably qualified experts working with you

    Alienated Mother shares her experience of this training!

    "Recently I purchased the Parental Alienation Training for Parents.  I found it very easy to watch, incredibly insightful, supportive, giving clear information on what Parental Alienation is, and how to deal with it best we can.

     

    1 from a parents perspective who is the target, 2 with the child, that’s been used to do this. Really found it helpful, loved the tips on how to talk to child phrases/ words to use with child when we are talking to them. Incredible support information for the parent direction on how we can make things better or change (no one is perfect and certainly in these situation it’s hard to see the wood from the trees) so unintentionally may have been acting saying things that fuel the alienator or hurt the child more.

     

    Thank you for this wonderful support. My wish is that all Solicitors, Lawyers, Barristers, Judges, Therapists, TUSLA Social workers learn see the signs as this abuse is used in courts by the other party who is doing this every day in Ireland just to get at other parent which only results in damaging the child . It’s a jack pot what judge you get on the day, what they want to hear, the processes is lengthy and costly and it’s the child who suffers.

     

    Let’s encourage those in the system, give this to your Barrister, Solicitor and Therapist to educate them now!”

     

    JT 01/09/2019

    THE 17 STRATEGIES ALIENATING PARENTS USE

      The strategies alienating parents use always form a pattern. In this section Brian discusses the 17 Alienating Strategies and gives real life examples of how they are used, what their purpose is and how they are used to erase targeted parents from their child(ren)s lives.

      Top 10 Benefits of Watching this Parental Alienation Training

      1. IF YOU THINK YOU ARE BEING ALIENATED, YOU ARE PROBABLY RIGHT, THIS TRAINING WILL TEACH YOU WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN!
      2. THIS IS ESSENTIAL IF YOU ARE A TARGETED PARENT BECAUSE WITHOUT THE RIGHT INFORMATION YOU WILL STRUGGLE BADLY TO HAVE YOUR VOICE HEARD!
      3. YOU WILL LEARN THE SIGNS THAT SHOW IF YOUR EX IS ATTEMPTING TO ALIENATE YOU FROM YOUR CHILD(REN)!
      4. YOU WILL LEARN THE TACTICS THAT ALIENATING PARENTS USE!
      5. YOU WILL LEARN THE SIGNS YOU MUST WATCH FOR IN YOUR KIDS TO TELL IF THEY ARE BEING ALIENATED FROM YOU OR TO UNDERSTAND HOW FAR THE ALIENATION PROCESS HAS PROGRESSED!
      6. YOU WILL LEARN WHAT YOU NEED TO BE TELLING YOUR LAWYER TO PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR KIDS! THIS ALONE COULD SAVE YOU THOUSANDS!
      7. YOU WILL SAVE YOURSELF A LOT OF WASTED TIME TRYING TO FIND LEGAL OR MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS WHO UNDERSTAND PARENTAL ALIENATION!
      8. YOU WILL LEARN THE ESSENTIAL TERMS YOU NEED TO USE WHEN SPEAKING WITH SOCIAL SERVICES OR SOCIAL WORKERS.
      9. YOU WILL LEARN SOME STRATEGIES TO HELP YOU WHEN DEALING WITH AN ALIENATING EX!
      10. YOU WILL EMPOWER YOURSELF SO THAT YOU KNOW THE FACTS NEEDED TO FIGHT PARENTAL ALIENATION!

      WHO WILL BENEFIT FROM WATCHING THIS TRAINING?

      • Any parent that has been rejected by their child or children!

      • Any parent that is experiencing contact or access issues!

      • Any parent who had a warm loving relationship with their child prior to rejection or access issues arising!

      • Any parent who suspects that their

        ex-partner is trying to undermine access or contact with their children!

      • Any parent who has noticed unusual changes in behaviour in their children!

      • Any parent going through a high conflict separation or divorce!

        Watch Brian O'Sullivan being interviewed on Virgin Media 1- The Elaine Show, discussing Parental Alienation, its devastating affects and its inclusion in The World Health Organisations International Classification of Diseases, ICD-11

        • Alienation Can Last A Lifetime

          If your ex is successful in alienating you, then it could be for the rest of your life. That is the harsh reality of Parental Alienation! Lawyers, judges, social workers and custody evaluators can only help you if you can explain the facts, clearly and concisely! Even at that, most of them don't understand Parental Alienation and you have an uphill battle ahead of you, but if you can show a solid basis for your argument, that it is a case of Parental Alienation and you can provide evidence, at least you have a fighting chance! This training will show you what you need to look out for, so that you can explain whats happening! 

        • Be Different To The Other Alienated Parents!

          Most alienated parents are angry, frustrated, anxious, depressed and downright pissed off and have every right to be! But how do these emotions help you fight your case?

           

          Alienators on the other hand are calm, collected, charming and convincingThey are MASTER MANIPULATORS and can lie with ease! Sound Familiar?
           

          Who do you think the judges believe in court? The emotional loving parent that's fighting for their children? No - The convincing liar! - that is unless you can be calm, collected and you express yourself clearly and effectively! That's why we have created this training, to teach you what you need to look out for so that you can calmly show the court what is happening to you and your children.

        • Be Smarter & More Informed Than The Narcissist Alienator!

          Alienators usually are narcissists or have borderline personality disorder and because of your breakup, you are now the focus of all their attention and bitterness and your child is their weapon of choice! Their issues won't go away, so it is no longer about you being an ex-partner, it is now their desire to make you an ex-parent! They want to erase you from your child's life!  Only you can stop this!

        • You Need To Be Better Informed!

          Be able to explain the dynamics of Parental Alienation in a structured manner! You need to have your facts straight as you are fighting an uphill battle whether you know it or not!

        • You Need To Make The Best Choices!

          By educating yourself, you will be able to tell if a lawyer, therapist or social worker actually knows what Parental Alienation is and whether they will be able to help you protect yourself and you children! Most of them don't have a clue! Included is access to our Reference Database where you can gain valuable information to support your case from some of the worlds leaders in Parental Alienation!

        • Treat Every Day As Your Last Chance!

          If you think that Parental Alienation will go away by itself then you are sadly mistaken! The longer you are separated from your child(ren) the more ingrained the alienation becomes! At every opportunity, you need to make your case of Parental Alienation and hopefully you will finally have your voice heard! 

           

          This training is intended to help parents just like you to create a sound foundation from which you can make a solid argument, based upon facts and supported by international peer reviewed information so that you can protect yourself and your child(ren) from a life sentence of Parental Alienation!

        • Don't Make The Same Mistake So Many Others Make!

          Many parents go into court and scream Parental Alienation and it falls on deaf ears! Don't make this mistake! The purpose of this training is so that you can describe what is happening in a logical manner, then let the court, custody evaluators or mental health professionals decide what it is!

           

          Pathological Parenting, Maladaptive Gate Keeping, Unjustifiable Estrangement all equal Parental Alienation. This training will teach you how to explain what is happening so that whoever you are speaking with, whether they understand Parental Alienation or not, will see that there is a serious problem that needs to be fixed!

           

          This training is intended to help parents just like you to create a sound foundation from which you can make a solid argument, based upon facts and supported by international peer reviewed information so that you can protect yourself and your child(ren) from a life sentence of Parental Alienation!

        THE HISTORY OF PARENTAL ALIENATION

          Parental Alienation has been around for a very long time, however many professionals believe it was created in the 80's. In this section Brian explores the history of PA and discusses some famous characters from history who either alienators or were themselves alienated.


          ESSENTIAL TRAINING FOR ANY PARENT WHO IS EXPERIENCING CHILD ACCESS ISSUES?

          When your child rejects you after you have been through a separation or divorce and you cannot understand why it's happening can be one of the most upsetting experiences you will ever go through. You are grieving for the loss of a child that is still alive!

           

          There are many feelings you will experience and one overriding feeling will be confusion. You will have many questions such as;

          • Why is my child rejecting me?
          • Why is my child refusing contact with me?
          • What can I do to help my child?
          • What is actually happening to turn my child against me?
          • Is this just temporary and will it pass?
          • How can I get professional or legal help and how can I be sure that they know what Parental Alienation is?

          These are common questions asked by parents when their child rejects them and in this training we begin to answer these questions and explore the dynamics of Parental Alienation.

           

          If there is no history of neglect or abuse on your part then there is the possibility that your ex-partner is trying to turn your child against you and destroy your relationship with them by erasing you from their lives - this is called Parental Alienation and it wont just go away!

          There are 3 stages to Parental Alienation, Mild, Moderate and Severe.

          The unfortunate reality is that if your child is being alienated from you that you are in one of these 3 stages. This training will help you understand whats happening right now and will also help you understand what the future holds for you and your children unless there is some form of intervention.

           

          To end the psychological and emotional abuse of your child by Parental Alienation requires that you become educated on it and can discuss it with any legal, social or mental health professionals you will encounter on this journey.

           

          This training is an essential for any parent that is being rejected by their child so that they can make informed decisions that are in the best interest of their child or children.

          WHY SHOULD YOU WATCH THIS?

          This training video has been created by Parental Alienation Europe and is presented by our co-founder Brian O'Sullivan, a Consultant Systemic Family Psychotherapist, Expert on Parental Alienation, Expert Witness in cases of Parental Alienation, who has published peer reviewed papers on Parental Alienation and has been working with victims of Parental Alienation for over a decade, to assist parents in understanding whether or not the rejection they are experiencing is Parental Alienation.

           

          We have created this video training for parents who are being rejected by their children so that you will become more informed about Parental Alienation and we cover essential elements that you must understand if you are to address this through legal, social or mental health routes.


          PRESENTER:

          Brian's first undergraduate award was in Emergency Medical Science. He then earned a B.A. Psychotherapy & Psychometric Testing before earning an M.Sc. Systemic Family Psychotherapy at University College Dublin & the Mater Hospital.

           

          Brian is a registered and accredited Systemic Family Psychotherapist with the Irish Council of Psychotherapy and the Family Therapy Association of Ireland. He has lectured on accredited undergraduate and post graduate program's in psychological theory and therapy. He has designed and delivered two M.Sc. programs both of which have been validated by Middlesex University, London.

          His area of interest, practice and research relates to the phenomenon where children resist contact with a previous loved parent in an unjustified way in the context of high conflict separations and divorce often, referred to as parental alienation. He acts as an expert witness in private family law proceedings where alienation may be considered to be a factor.

           

          Brian has completed the only study regarding parental alienation in Ireland. This study adds to a paucity in the literature globally. It was conducted with ethical permission from the Human Research Ethics Committee at University College Dublin and graded A in final examination.

           

          Brian has been published in peer reviewed and non peer reviewed journals nationally and internationally. He has delivered seminars regarding PA at a variety of venues including the British Psychological Society's Annual Conference (2016) in Nottingham and more recently at Queens University Belfast (2018) and the Tavistock Clinic London (2018).


          REFERENCES:

          PUBLICATIONS:

          • O’ Sullivan. B (2012) Does Helping Hurt, Journal of Canadian Paramedicine, 35:1, pp.25- 27
          • O’ Sullivan. B (2013) the Alienated Child, Irish Journal of Family Law, 16:1, pp. 20-23
          • O’ Sullivan. B (2014) Paramedic Attitudes to Deliberate Self Harming Behaviors in Ireland, Journal of Paramedic Practice, 6:3 pp. 116 – 118
          • O’ Sullivan. B (2015) Parental Alienation should be a criminal offence, Irish Times
          • Monday September 1, 2015 https://www.irishtimes.com/news/social-affairs/parental-alienation-should-be-criminal-offence-says-group-1.2335436
          • O’ Sullivan. B (2016) Parental Alienation – Guest writer The Westmeath Examiner
          • O’ Sullivan. B (2017) Parent Alienation, Irish Psychologists are beginning to recognize a new and damaging phenomenon https://villagemagazine.ie/index.php/2017/02/parentalienation
          • O'Sullivan. B (2018) Parental Alienation – A Systemic Perspective, Context, Journal of Systemic and Family Practice (UK)

          CONFERENCES:

          • Presentation of paper “The Alienated Child” at International Parental Alienation Awareness Day, conference, Dublin, 2015.
          • British Psychological Society’s, Annual Conference, Nottingham, April, 2016.
          • Redressing the impact of parental alienation: working with the family
          • Irish Association of Social Workers, Special Interest Group, Lucena Clinic, Rathgar, Dublin. Presentation of research findings of study titled “Being Alien – The Lived Experiences of Alienated Parents in Ireland” September 26, 2016
          • Irish College of Humanities & Science, Limerick post graduate presentation of research findings titled “Parental Alienation Understanding, Indications and Awareness, November 24, 2016
          • Parental Alienation – Denied Contact in High Conflict Separation and Divorce, CPD seminar to faculty and lecturers PCI College, Dublin, March 9, 2017
          • Research findings Being Alienated – The Lived Experiences of Alienated Parent Ireland – seminar to Post Graduate Research Seminar, DCU School of Nursing & Human Sciences, December 2017
          • In the best interests of the children: Exploring parental alienation & estrangement, School of Social Sciences, Education and Social Work, Queens University, Belfast, April 25, 2018
          • Parental Alienation – A Systemic Perspective, Second Systemic Postgraduate research conference – curiosity and critical practice, Tavistock Clinic, London May 4, 2018.

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